It can be tough when you’re trying to get someone’s attention and they seem to be ignoring you. Maybe they’re just busy, or maybe there’s something wrong – but it can be hard to tell. The best thing to do in this situation is to try and contact them in a different way.
It’s no secret that texting women can be a confusing task.
There are a lot of questions to ask yourself. What should I write her next, what did her previous text imply, how long should I wait before texting her again, and is she ignoring my messages?
The worst part is when the girl suddenly stops responding or appears to have vanished, and you have no idea why.
It’s very possible that you’ve made one of these blunders
Even though these mistakes might seem small, they can quickly turn a girl off. So let’s go over them.
Mistake: Going for the Meetup Without Creating Emotion
If you ask a woman out without first making her feel something, chances are she’ll say no.
Why?
Getting ready and going out to meet a guy she barely knows (and the potential you’ll turn out to be a creep or just plain bad) is not worth the trouble. She can logically persuade herself that it’s not worth it.
It’s a lot easier to elicit a “yes” from a woman after you’ve generated a good feeling.
Using flirting or humor is the most effective method.
It’s essential to remember that she is NOT going to recall all of your best qualities. Thus, it becomes your responsibility to remind her of them regularly.
Mistake: Becoming too Predictable
Let’s say that you’ve now succeeded in getting a date with a girl. You may think you’re home-free when it comes to texting, but there are still some things you need to keep in mind.
First, to keep her interested, mix things up and don’t fall into routines. lots of men use the same methods over and over, but this will make you appear boring. even though it takes more effort to be creative, she’ll appreciate your genuine interest.
Instead, break things up with some spicy ever once in a while.
Like asking her wild questions, sending her random GIFs, or planning fun outings.
Tell her, you have a “surprise” to show her later.
Tell her something reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away.
Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).
Keep her guessing what your text will be and you’ll keep her interested in you. Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.
If you don’t become too predictable, your girl should be texting YOU asking when YOU are available to hang out.
Mistake: Thinking She’s Different
I have emphasized, “Never express your feelings for a girl over text.” But I receive emails from readers every day telling me how they expressed their feelings to a girl over text… And each and every time, they scare the girl away.
In your mind, you’re going to try to convince yourself that “She is different.”
Or that “It won’t work on her”
But the minute you tell yourself ‘she’s different you are on the road to losing her.
Guys continually do things like:
– Texting her too much
– Paying her gushing compliments over text
– Not asking her to hang out because you’re scared
And time and time again they’ll face the same consequences as all the other guys have.
She’s not different. And if anytime you start thinking she is, read this article and re-read it.
Ok…
So now that you know the big mistakes you need to avoid it’s time to formulate a solid game plan.
In this video you’re going to learn how to turn your phone into a magnet… by using a specific sequence of texts called: The Key Lock Sequence.
Some of the things you’ll learn:
– How to capitalize on attraction before it fades
– The single biggest ingredient for capturing her attention
– 3 specific types of texts you need to send (in order) to turn her on and get her anxious to meet up.
Final thoughts
Texting is a great way to stay in touch with a girl, but it should only be used as a tool for making plans to meet up.
The worst mistake you can make while texting a girl is sending her long, drawn-out texts that don’t have any point. If you want to keep the girl engaged, you need to keep your texts short and sweet.
The best way to do this is by asking her questions that she can’t answer with just a yes or no.
In addition, you should also be using text as a way to build attraction by flirting with her.
And finally, don’t forget to mix things up and keep her guessing by mixing up your texts and doing things that she doesn’t expect.
If you can avoid these mistakes, you’ll be well on your way to becoming a master texter.